Boxes, frames? They’re all the same.

You know what really grinds my gears? Our society has determined that physical health takes precedent to psychological health. What kind of horse shit is that? I was watching an episode of Grey's tonight where this dick wad of a father was beating his wife and son-- they finally leave him and end up in... Continue Reading →


Borders: The domains in which we must live.

Female, daughter, sister, granddaughter, niece, friend, girlfriend, student, graduate assistant, intern, bartender, teammate, pupil, mentor, advisor, employee, therapist. These are many of the labels that describe my life right now. The last year of my life has been tempestuous, to say the least. There have been so many changes, happening so rapidly. Dipping, weaving, falling,... Continue Reading →


I have spent the past few months trying to get in touch with my "destiny," so to speak. Now I should mention that I am not one that believes in destiny. I don't think there is a design in place that determines our greatness, or solidifies our place in the world. I think our "destiny"... Continue Reading →

The winds of change

I initially started this post a few days ago following a dramatic weekend, but half way through the post, I decided to close my window because honestly, I have better things to do with my time. Given that it is World Mental Health day, I, like everyone else have been inundated with messages about this... Continue Reading →

It’s lit~

Just wanted to do a quick update. Today has been incredible. The energy was potent and people were ~feeling themselves~ I had my first session with my new therapist. She's cool. We're gonna get along. More to come on this as we progress. But in other news, following my last post We are powerful, boy... Continue Reading →

We are powerful

Apparently the topic of intuition is on my mind tonight, but when inspiration strikes, I am going to ride the wave! A few hours ago I was contemplating my natural feelings of being an empath with my diagnosis of BPD through the lens of an uncertain relationship. I can say, that since that post, I... Continue Reading →

BPD, Empath, or both?

I have a lot of acquaintances, but I do not have a lot of friends. I am positive that many of the people in my life consider themselves my friend, but in this realm, I am really very selective. When I meet a new friend, I intuitively know within seconds of meeting them that they... Continue Reading →

Finally, a good ending!

  As you may have read in a previous piece of mine, Dear Dr. L, thank you, I had a unique and special relationship with my therapist. After 10 long, wonderful, draining yet fulfilling months, we had our last session together today. Today signifies the end of the first completely healthy-through-its-entirety relationship in my life.... Continue Reading →

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